First of all, you need to demonstrate that you have learned from past mistakes. You should look at what didn’t work the first time around and see if you can improve on it. Did he complain that you spent too much time with your girl friends? Then, plan to spend more time with him if you get back together.
The next thing you need to do is remind him of all of the good things in your relationship. Who were you when you first got together? Has anything changed? For instance, when you got together were you a bubbly outgoing girl who had lots of things on your plate? Then, as you got more involved with him, did you drop a lot of your activities? Maybe he dropped you because you weren’t as engaging as you used to be.
Put your hurt feelings aside and look at how you can support your ex boyfriend. While he’s just a friend now, by being there to support him, maybe you can turn the relationship back into something more.
If his friends were critical of you, that may have been the reason behind the break up. Try to win his friends over as they have a great deal of influence on who he chooses to date.
One of the most powerful tools you have to get your ex boyfriend back is to reminisce about the good times you shared. As you put the positive memories in his mind, he will feel more like getting back together with you.
Go to the places you used to go together and do the activities you used to do together. Not only will this make it more likely that you will just “run in” to your ex boyfriend, you will also be developing the hobbies that he enjoys. Also, if there was a pastime that he encouraged you to take up while you were in the relationship, you might want to consider doing it now. It will signal to him that you have changed and have become even more interesting.
Always look your best. You never know when you might run into him. Guys are so much more visual that girls are. So, your appearance matters.
Be a positive person. Guys don’t like depressed, whining girls. Be positive and upbeat around all kinds of people – but especially your ex!
But, whatever you do, don’t be too obvious that you are trying to get your ex boyfriend back. The pressure will make him like you less, not more.
You will notice that the advice I’ve given you here will make you a more attractive girlfriend whether it is for your ex or for a new guy. That’s because improving yourself will always get you a boyfriend.
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